At some point in our life, we evaluate our journey in this world.
Questions starting to pop into our mind:
"How do I feel lately?"
"Is this what I really want?"
"How do I want my life to be?"
The answer is simple:
It's your life,you may choose.
"Easy for you to say, Naomi..." you may fuss.
You are right.
No, it is not easy.
But let me share you some secrets...
1. How do you see the world?
How do you see the world really affect how you live your life
When you see the world as an awful place, chances are you are less happy and sorrow will often be with you.
When you see the world as a playground, you play and enjoy the sunshine.
When you see the world as a magical place, you amazed by it wonders and believe in everything you see.
2. You are what you eat, and so on...
You are what you eat.
You are what you read.
You are what you listen.
You are what you watch.
You are what you think.
You are what you believe.
Please, be honest...
Please, listen to yourself more.
You are responsible of your life, please be more thoughtful, for you.
Do you really need that much chips?
Do you really enjoy that coffee?
Do you really enjoy that music?
Do you really enjoy that movie?
Do you really enjoy that place?
Keep your preferences in your mind,
If people love the taste of that coffee but you like tea instead, then don't drink that coffee.
If people love that movie, but you don't really like watching movie, then don't.
If people like to hang out at that place everybody went to, but you're not comfortable with the groove there, then stay at home.
Listen to your heart.
3. You may not able to choose how you feel,
but you may choose how to react.
Some moments happen in your life, can affect you emotionally.
In a split second you feel that raw emotion: sad, happy, afraid, excited, etc.
How to react? It's really up to you.
We may say
"I feel most happy when I'm near my friends"
"I feel most happy with a glass of wine"
"I feel most happy being outside on a sunny day"
But, what if all your friends are busy, you are out of wine or storm clouds flashing lightnings ourside?
Then what?
Even if all the comfort in your heart has taken away, you may still choose.
That's the power you have.
That's what so awesome about living your life.
You may be sad for awhile, or even a bit longer...
But you, my dear, you have the power to be happy instead.
Anytime you are feeling down,
When everything seems blue,
Try to remember all the little things in life you are blessed with. Little things that matter alot.
